Social distancing protocols permitting, sex parties are another great option. “Just like any social media platform or dating app, there are some great folks and some creeps.” “Just be careful and use your common sense,” says More.
So, if that’s not in your budget, More recommends finding a skilled spanker through FetLife, which is described as, “Facebook…. “There are a plethora of incredibly skilled sex workers who specialize in BDSM, some of who do full-service work, and some of who only do spanking,” explains More.Ī session with a sex worker will typically cost you $200 to $400 (per hour or scene, depending) and insurance won’t cover it (ugh). So who do you go to? Usually a sex worker, according to More. Spanking therapy typically doesn’t involve going to a credentialed or licensed therapist. In other words, spanking therapy requires skill!Īnd it isn’t a skill you learn while training to be a licensed marriage family therapist, for instance. “There’s a difference between slapping someone’s rear end willy-nilly and spanking therapy,” says Taylor.
